The Bachelor Arie Luyendyk Jr.'s ex Selma Alameri: I think Jef Holm is jealous Arie is 'The Bachelor' rather than him 01/10/2018 Arie Luyendyk Jr.'s former girlfriend, The Bachelor alum Selma Alameri, has apparently picked a side in the Arie vs. Jef Holm feud. Read More RELATED NEWS 'The Bachelor' alum Kendall Long and husband expecting their first child'The Bachelor' alum Tia Booth expecting Baby No. 2 with husband Taylor Mock'The Bachelor' alum Seinne Fleming pregnant with her first child TAGS: The Bachelor Selma Alameri Chris Harrison Jef Holm Sean Lowe Arie Luyendyk Jr. Emily Maynard The Bachelor