The Bachelor Arie Luyendyk Jr.'s ex Selma Alameri: I think Jef Holm is jealous Arie is 'The Bachelor' rather than him 01/10/2018 Arie Luyendyk Jr.'s former girlfriend, The Bachelor alum Selma Alameri, has apparently picked a side in the Arie vs. Jef Holm feud. Read More RELATED NEWS Lauren Burnham expecting again after Arie Luyendyk Jr.'s vasectomy reversal'The Bachelor' alum Kendall Long welcomes first child with husband Mitchell Sagely'The Bachelor' alum Kendall Long and husband expecting their first child TAGS: The Bachelor Selma Alameri Chris Harrison Jef Holm Sean Lowe Arie Luyendyk Jr. Emily Maynard The Bachelor